Are You a “Girl’s Girl”? 6 Ways to Practice Sisterhood on the Daily

Today is National Girlfriends Day, which is dedicated to celebrating the special bond between women friends. This celebration made us think about sisterhood and what it means to be a “girl’s girl.” There’s something powerful about women who can make other women feel seen and in community. That’s a girl’s girl. She’s the friend who hypes you up before your big presentation, the coworker who mentions your name in the right room, and the stranger who tells you your eyeliner is perfect while you both wait in line for coffee. It can be easy to fall into comparison and competition, but it’s good to remember there’s room for everyone. And hyping each other up is mutually beneficial. 

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Why Sisterhood Matters

Modern life can be isolating. Social media signals us to curate, compete, and compare. Workplaces reward individualism. And despite all our “girl boss” memes, women are still taught—subtly and not-so-subtly—to see each other as rivals. But study after study confirms what our hearts already know: women thrive in community. Close friendships with other women are linked to lower stress, stronger immune systems, and even longer lives. And it’s not just about wellness. Sisterhood is resistance in a society that often tries to pit women against each other. 

So, What Does It Mean to Be a Girl’s Girl?

At her core, a girl’s girl is someone who shows up for other women with kindness, loyalty, and courage. She listens without judgment, tells the truth with compassion, and knows when to speak up, especially when no one else does. Everyday acts of solidarity—sharing a job lead, offering a shoulder to cry on, or simply cheering someone on—chip away at tired tropes like the “catty woman” or the “mean girl.” And they model what true empowerment looks like: not just climbing the ladder, but holding it steady for someone else. Here’s how you can practice this kind of sisterhood in your daily life:

Say the thing

If you admire another woman’s strength, her outfit, her courage, or anything else, say it. Let your compliments be free and frequent. We all remember the one stranger who told us we looked powerful when we needed to hear it most.

Resist the gossip reflex

It’s tempting to bond over someone else’s flaws. But a girl’s girl knows real connection comes from honesty, not judgment. If the conversation turns negative, steer it elsewhere or step away. Solidarity includes the conversations people never hear.

Celebrate all the wins

Sure, promotions and proposals are exciting, but so is setting a boundary, surviving a hard week, or finally signing up for therapy. Let your friends know you see them in the big and the small. Make a fuss over their glow-ups and their quiet victories.

Be generous with your connections

Got a job lead? A helpful contact? A resource that changed your life? Share it. Hoarding opportunities keeps us stuck in competition mode. Building bridges builds power for all of us.

Amplify other women

Use your voice, your social media, your platforms, whatever you’ve got, to lift up other women. Share their work, shout out their wins, and advocate for their ideas in meetings. Think of it as shining your light on others. It doesn’t take much effort; you just have to learn to see the opportunities. 

Make time even when you’re busy

You don’t have to be constantly available to be a good friend, but you do have to make time. A quick text, a meme that made you laugh, a voice note saying “I’m thinking of you” are all small gestures that create connection. And when the big stuff hits, show up and be present.