12 Slang Terms to Help You Understand Your Gen Z Niblings

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If you've ever been around your Gen Z nieces, nephews, or younger cousins (aka "niblings") and felt like they were speaking an entirely different language, you're not alone. One minute, they’re saying something is “lit,” and the next, they’re “shook” because they just heard some “tea.” If you nodded along, pretending you understood, don’t worry, we've got you. To help you decode their vocabulary and maybe even impress them a little, here are 12 Gen Z slang terms you need to know.

Lit

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If something is “lit,” it means it’s amazing, fun, or exciting. A concert, a party, or even a really good meal can all be lit. The term originally referred to being intoxicated, but today, it’s mostly about hyping up an experience. Example: “That concert last night was lit!”

No Cap

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“No cap” is Gen Z’s way of saying “no lie” or “for real.” It’s used to emphasize that someone is telling the truth. The opposite of this is just “cap,” which means to lie or exaggerate. Example: “I swear, this is the best pizza I’ve ever had—no cap.”

Slay

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“Slay” is all about absolutely killing it—but in a good way. Whether it’s an outfit, a performance, or just the way someone carries themselves, if they “slay,” they’re doing it flawlessly. Example: “You slayed that!”

Shook

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Being “shook” means you’re so shocked or surprised by something that you don’t know how to react. It can be used for everything from plot twists in TV shows to real-life drama. Example: “I just found out my favorite celebrity got married, and I’m shook.”

Yeet

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“Yeet” started as a term for throwing something with force but evolved into an exclamation for excitement or enthusiasm. You can yeet a ball across a field, or you can yeet yourself into bed after a long day.

Simp

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A “simp” is someone who goes above and beyond for someone they’re attracted to, often to the point of being overly submissive or doing too much. It’s mostly used as a joke, but sometimes it can be used to call someone out. Example: “He bought her flowers, wrote her a poem, and carried her books to class? Bro is simping hard.”

Sus

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Short for “suspicious,” “sus” is used when something or someone seems sketchy or not quite right. It became especially popular thanks to the game Among Us, where players had to figure out who was acting shady. Example: “You suddenly wanna be nice to me? That’s sus.”

Tea

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“Tea” is just another word for gossip or juicy information. If someone asks for the “tea,” they want the latest drama. If someone is “spilling the tea,” they’re sharing all the details. Example: “Tell me why Jessica and Kyle broke up, I need all the tea!”

W

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Short and simple, “W” just means a win or success. You can say someone “took an L” (loss) if things didn’t go well, but if they “got the W,” they won in life. Example: “You got promoted? That’s a W for sure!”

Dank

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Originally tied to cannabis culture, “dank” has evolved to just mean cool, high-quality, or funny. It’s often used to describe memes, but it can apply to other things too. Example: “That was a dank burger. I need another one.”

Glow-Up

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A “glow-up” is a transformation for the better, usually in terms of looks, confidence, or success. It’s like the “before and after” of self-improvement. Example: “She used to be so shy in high school, but now she’s super confident. The glow-up is real.”

Periodt

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Used to emphasize a statement, “periodt” is like slamming the door on a conversation—there’s no debate. It’s an exaggerated way to say “and that’s final." Example: “Pineapple does NOT belong on pizza, periodt.”