10 Things Only Latinos with Siblings Will Understand

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Family is a core part of Latino culture and many Latinos are blessed with big ones. Thank God for that cause we can all agree that growing up with siblings is better than being an only child. No offense to only children, but having brothers and sisters simply makes things more interesting. For better or worse, sharing your childhood with siblings leaves you with heartwarming, funny, and unique memories. Not to mention you get to create your own world, understanding, and traditions with them. Here are 10 things only Latinos with siblings will understand:


The Power of the Chancla

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Chancla, also known as a flip-flop, is an infamous piece of footwear in Latino homes and a key (dreaded) feature in every Latino childhood. When your mamá reached for the chancla, you and your siblings knew it was time to behave or else. The mere warning of it being picked up was enough to get your act together. Even if you wanted to get your sibling into a bit of trouble, the chancla was a step too far.

The Unspoken Rule of Sharing

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In a Latino family, sharing isn’t just encouraged; it’s expected. Whether it’s food, clothes, or even your bed, we grow up learning to share everything with our siblings. That doesn’t mean we didn’t have a hidden caché of things we didn’t want to share or that it didn’t take some convincing from our parents sometimes, especially when it came to sharing the TV or our favorite video games. But most of the time, all it took was sharing a knowing look between siblings.

Fights Over the Last Bit of Abuela's Cooking

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If you grew up in a Latino household, you know that abuela's cooking is sacred. Whether it's her famous arroz con pollo or that delicious marble cake that melts in your mouth, there was always a little fight over who got the last bit. Remember negotiating, distracting, or outright manipulating your siblings to get your way? And you kept track of how many times each of you won, so it was a fun competition too. Victory was always so sweet!

The Art of Blaming Each Other

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Latino siblings usually love each other, but that doesn’t mean betrayal was out of the question when you were kids. Whether something broke at home or someone was brought to tears, you didn’t want to be the one to be targeted by the chancla. So the blame game was sort of an Olympic sport for you and your siblings. You probably perfected the innocent eyes while pointing the finger at each other.

Going on Midnight Snack Adventures

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Late-night hunger knows no bounds, especially when you have siblings to share it with. The thing is that after mamá cleaned the kitchen and went to bed, no one was supposed to mess around. That turned midnight snacks into a covert operation that required you to recruit your siblings or vice versa. From raiding the fridge for delicious leftovers to secretly eating all the snacks, these midnight adventures are some of your most cherished memories.

The Silent Communication During Family Gatherings

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Family gatherings are a whole different ball game when you’re Latino because there are a lot of strong personalities under one roof. When you were a kid, navigating those gatherings with your siblings was quite an art form. Unavoidably, you developed the most effective silent communication. With only one look, subtle nod, or raised eyebrow, you could let your siblings know you wanted to escape Aunt María’s endless stories or sneak away to play with the cousins.

The Importance of “Respect Your Elders”

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One of the many values Latinos learn from a very early age is to respect one’s elders. Growing up, older siblings looked out for younger ones to ensure everyone followed this rule and understood the importance of it. Especially when dealing with abuelos because disrespect just wasn’t an option. If you were the older sibling, you probably remember taking this role seriously. If you were younger, you’re probably grateful for all the times your sibling saved you.

Being Each Other's Biggest Supporters

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Through thick and thin, siblings are always there to support and uplift each other. Even if you didn’t always get along with your siblings, you could always count on them to get you out of a pickle. That probably carried over to adulthood and you still count on your siblings for support in many different ways. It’s the beauty of the Latino tight-knit family dynamic; no matter what mess you get into, your family will be there.

The Shared Experience of Novelas

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Growing up, watching telenovelas with your family was a ritual no one wanted to skip. You and your siblings would get sucked in by the drama whether you wanted to or not. There’s just no denying there’s something very engaging and compelling about novelas. Whether it’s the dramatic acting, toxic relationships, or the messy plots, once you get started, you don’t want to look away. So even if you disavow novelas as an adult, you will always remember enjoying them with your siblings and family.

Fierce Loyalty No Matter What

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Despite any arguments or fights you get into as siblings, Latinos are fiercely loyal. “Don’t mess with my sister (or brother)” is the kind of sentiment Latinos can easily relate to. If anyone inside or outside the family tried to hurt them, you would stand up and defend them with everything you had. They did the same for you and that’s a big part of the beauty of having siblings to rely on.

This Viral Video Game Is Changing the Face of Voter Outreach

In 2024, voting campaigns have evolved greatly, to say the least. Creativity is now the name of the game and tongue-in-cheek humor is expertly leveraged to drive action. One example of that is Bop the Bigot, a revival of a viral game created in 2016 by Bazta Arpaio, an Arizona activist group, as part of a campaign to unseat Maricopa County’s Sheriff Joe Arpaio. Arpaio lost his re-election to Paul Penzone that year.

The game has now been updated for the current election cycle and relaunched by On Point Studios, with new features added to enable players to find out what’s on their ballot, confirm voter status, and register to vote.

Much like its former 2016 version, the game allows users to take out their political frustrations by virtually “bopping” GOP candidates in the head. It’s very similar to whack-a-mole, except the mole is replaced by former President Donald Trump, Ohio’s Senator J. D. Vance, and Kevin Roberts, President of the Heritage Foundation, which is spearheading Project 2025.

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B. Loewe, Director of On Point Studios, came up with the concept for this game when working as the Communications Director at Bazta Arpaio in 2016, and is the executive producer of this revamped version. In the first version of the game, Bop the Bigot players used a chancla (flip flop) to “bop” the characters, tapping into Latino culture by leaning on the childhood experience of being set right by a flying chancla from a fed-up mother or grandmother.

This year, the chancla is replaced by a more current element, a green coconut, referencing Kamala Harris’ coconut tree meme. There are also side characters like “the couch,” cat ladies, and more coconuts. All references to jokes about Vice-Presidential candidate Vance, or insults Vance has made about women on the campaign trail.

Another new addition is that Harris’ laugh is immortalized as the game-over sound effect, an unexpected detail that adds even more humor and levity to the game.

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Bop the Bigot, which is playable on desktop and mobile, is intended not just as a way to vent political frustrations, but also as a tool for activism and securing voter engagement.

For example, the game supports the work of Mexican Neidi Dominguez Zamorano, Founding Executive Director of the non-profit organization Organized Power in Numbers by using the “game over” screen to prompt players to donate to it and support their efforts.

Organized Power in Numbers is focused on empowering workers in the South and Southwest of the U.S. through collective action and comprehensive campaigns. Their mission is to create a large-scale movement that challenges the status quo and advocates for workers' rights, and racial and economic justice.

Currently, Dominguez Zamorano is leading worker outreach to 2 million working-class voters in the South and Southwest through doorknocking, texting, and calls with the help of local groups in North Carolina, Arizona, New Mexico, and more.

“We have been blown away by the enthusiastic reception for the video game. We knew we wanted to be part of its creative approach because our movement needs more fun and laughter. We need more ways to connect with nuestra gente so we can feel joy among all the absurdity we witness every day,” Dominguez Zamorano shared with Luz Media via email.

“Our people are gente trabajadora and we deserve to feel uplifted even in our toughest moments. We are deeply involved in the South and Southwest so we know what’s at stake in this election and we’re happy this can be a resource to mobilize, raise spirits, and get out the vote," she concluded.

Dominguez Zamorano is a committed activist for immigrants and workers' rights, known for her strategist skills and expertise. She played a key role in the campaign to win DACA and has also held roles in major campaigns, including as Deputy National States Director for Bernie Sanders' 2020 presidential campaign. In addition to her work with Organized Power in Numbers, Dominguez Zamorano is serving as a Senior Advisor to Mijente’s Fuera Trump Initiative.

Grassroots efforts like these have taken on new life in 2024, with Bop the Bigot adding to the larger, ongoing fight against political apathy and disinformation. Just as it did during the 2016 race, the video game uses humor to soften the serious task at hand—getting people to the polls.

"We want the game to be a fun and comical outlet for anyone who’s been insulted, frustrated, or harmed by Trump in the past and everyone who is ready to move forward as a country after election day," explained Loewe in a press release. "The proposals in Project 2025 and the beliefs of Trump and Vance aren’t just weird, they’re truly harmful. We wanted to give people a humorous and peaceful way to smack down their racism and sexism. We hope it makes people laugh and also feel empowered and motivated to get to the polls on or before election day."

With a mix of satire, sharp political critique, and nostalgia, the game is a call to action. The upcoming election, which is getting closer by the minute, has sparked fierce activism and creative yet grounded initiatives like these aim to ensure voters are engaged, especially young Latinos and disenfranchised groups.

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Originally published in Common Dreams. Reprinted with permission.

The Latino electorate will prove decisive in securing reproductive freedom and abortion access through ballot measures around the country, particularly in states where Latinos are a significant portion of the electorate.

In November, abortion rights measures will appear on ballots across ten states, including Arizona, Colorado, Florida, Nevada, and New York, where Latinos make up a significant portion of the electorate. For decades, pundits and politicians have recycled long-held misconceptions about Latino voters and abortion access, citing our conservative and religious beliefs.

Anti-abortion extremists have long fueled these misconceptions through misinformation and disinformation campaigns targeting Latino communities with egregious lies and inflammatory rhetoric about abortion. Yet, polling, focus groups, and direct interactions with Latino communities have debunked these outdated tropes.

The Latino electorate will prove decisive in securing reproductive freedom and abortion access through ballot measures around the country, particularly in states where Latinos are a significant portion of the electorate.

For Latinos, the freedom to decide, a pillar of our American democracy, is critical. Meanwhile, Latinos are being hit directly with anti-abortion efforts that take away that freedom such as the six-week abortion ban put into effect by the Florida Supreme Court and the 1864 abortion ban upheld by the Arizona Supreme Court. In the wake of the Dobbs decision, people of color and Latinas have felt the impact of a lack of abortion access, an element of basic healthcare.

A 2023 report by the National Partnership for Women and Families estimated that nearly 6.5 million Latinas, or 42% of all Latinas of reproductive age in the country, live in a state that either had or was likely to ban abortion. Ironically, it will be abortion access and anti-choice efforts to restrict freedom of choice that will mobilize Latino voters this election.

In a poll conducted by three national reproductive justice organizations, 87% of Latinas named abortion and women’s rights as one of their top priorities as they head to the polls. Another battleground poll conducted by Somos PAC and BSP Research found that 61% of Latino registered voters expressed a more positive/favorable view of Kamala Harris after hearing that she will protect abortion rights, versus only 19% of Latinos who said they had a more negative view of Harris after hearing that.

In key states to secure the White House and both chambers, Latinos make up large chunks of the electorate: Arizona (25%), Colorado (15%), Florida (20%), Nevada (20%), and New York (12%). In the face of unprecedented attacks on basic healthcare access and targeted attempts by extremists to mislead and divide our community on this issue, this November Latinos will be key deciders on abortion access across the country.

Mari Urbina, Managing Director of Indivisible, Battleground Arizona Lead and former Harry Reid advisor.

Héctor Sánchez Barba is president and CEO of Mi Familia Vota (MFV).