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The terms "old money" and "new money" aren’t new. At first glance, they’re just an observational comment on the accumulation of wealth. But if you look deeper, the implications are a lot more complex than that. “Old money” and “new money” actually reflect the ongoing class wars that reinforce racial inequality in this capitalistic society we inhabit. But how do these terms intersect with systemic racism and racial hierarchies, exactly?
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What Is "Old Money" vs. "New Money"
Before diving into the crux of the issue, it's essential to understand the underlying connotations both of these terms carry. "Old money" typically refers to families or individuals who have maintained their wealth over several generations. These families often pride themselves on traditions, lineage, and sometimes even blue-blooded ancestry. In contrast, the term "new money" is used to describe people or families who've acquired wealth in their lifetime, often through innovation, entrepreneurship, or sudden fame.
The problem isn't the definitions but the values and assumptions attached to them.
The vast majority of "old money" families are white and that’s due to the historical advantages and opportunities afforded to them, often at the disproportionate expense and exclusion of people of color. Considering the U.S. context, centuries of systemic racism - from slavery, Jim Crow laws, to discriminatory lending practices - have actively kept Black, Latino, and other communities of color from accumulating generational wealth. By venerating "old money" and its associated sophistication or class, we inadvertently celebrate a system that thrived on racial inequality.
The dichotomy often casts "new money" as flashy, ostentatious, or lacking in class. This not only undermines the hard work, innovation, and resilience of "new money" individuals but also disproportionately impacts people of color, who, due to systemic barriers, are more often in the "new money" category.
How Do These Terms Reinforce Racial Inequality
The terms "old money" and "new money" reinforce racial stereotypes precisely because of the images they invoke and the underlying assumptions they reinforce. "Old money" often brings to mind generations of wealthy, white families who have inherited their wealth, living in grand mansions and belonging to exclusive social circles. This image suggests a sense of tradition, stability, and entitlement to wealth.
On the other hand, "new money" typically conjures up images of flashy, self-made people—such as tech moguls, entertainers, sports stars, and entrepreneurs—who have recently acquired wealth. They’re often outsiders to the traditional elite and many of them are people of color.
This contrast subtly implies that wealth for people of color is something new, temporary, or obtained through unconventional means or sheer luck. It reinforces the idea that true, lasting wealth belongs to the white elite, and creates a distinction about who truly “deserves” wealth depending on how it’s acquired and the color of their skin.
Language is powerful. The way we name and categorize things can shape perceptions, influence opinions, and even determine value systems. By perpetuating the "old money" vs. "new money" narrative without a second thought, we’re endorsing the racial biases they carry.
We can choose to celebrate new beginnings, innovation, persistence, determination, and diverse paths to success. We can recognize that wealth accumulated without the shadow of oppression has its unique value. And most importantly, we can remember that in the age of information, the stories we amplify and the names we give to things can either perpetuate systemic racism or challenge and change it.
In this digital age, we have the power to rewrite narratives.
Many 2nd generation Latinos are often put in the position to have to not only provide for themselves, but for aging parents as well. Generations of white people have had unfettered access to education, real estate acquisition, and other wealth building opportunities, while Latino (and Black and other non-white people) families haven’t had the same access. This has resulted in Latino children having to go beyond just caring for their aging parents, but to also be their parents’ financial retirement plan.
With the Latina wage gap increasing in 2022, the future seems even bleaker than before. Meanwhile, the dutiful daughter complex lives on strongly in the Latina community making the responsibility of providing a good quality life for parents even more anxiety-ridden.
But there is a way to manage it. Unless our elected officials make meaningful changes to address the horrific wealth gap, the overall landscape won’t improve anytime soon, however, we can be proactive about how we move forward with taking care of ourselves and our loved ones.
Get an idea of your parent's finances.
Finances in many Latino households aren’t a popular discussion. While many 2nd generation Latinos end up understanding the value of money simply because of different socioeconomic situations they encounter, the conversations end there. It’s not enough to just know where your parents land on the income scale, you have to know their whole portfolio or lack thereof.
Do they have any savings at all? How much, if anything, do they expect in private retirement or social security payments? Do they own a home and if so, what’s owed on it? It’s important to sit down with your parents and have an honest conversation about their lifestyle and what they expect to maintain after they are too old to keep working. And most importantly, how much you can contribute to help.
Manage each other expectations.
Along with the difficult conversation about how much money they have and what they can depend on, it's important to manage each other's expectations for what is expected of you. This includes the caretaking, expenses, and how they will contribute. If you even need to go so far as to have it in writing, do that. This includes any end-of-life documents such as medical power of attorneys, a will, and any life insurance they may have.
Clear boundaries will help relieve the stress of having to figure it out on the fly when someone all of a sudden can’t work or if a parent should unexpectedly pass. No one wants to depend on a go fund me, so don’t.
Don't expect your parents to remain in perfect health.
While many start retirement planning before any illnesses come to mind, it’s important to note that with aging parents come higher healthcare costs. Budgeting for potential illnesses or shopping around for insurance that might enable better care pre-retirement is vital to ensuring that retirement-age expenses will be accounted for. When budgeting for retirement, many people do so without healthcare costs in mind, so be prepared for the unexpected and potentially the worst outcome will ensure everyone is equipped to deal with the situation.
As previously mentioned, life insurance is relatively inexpensive especially when the policy is purchased earlier in life. Many people mistakingly believe that all insurance is unaffordable and this simply isn’t true. What’s unaffordable is having to fork over $10,000.00 or more for a proper funeral and worse, having to ask friends, family, and strangers to help thru a go fund me. Save yourself a lot of stress, anxiety, and time and prepare in advance for the inevitable.
Savings accounts save lives.
Opening up a Roth IRA is a great option for those working for employers that may not have retirement accounts available. Gains to contributions tend to be higher the earlier you begin putting money towards a Roth. Still, it's never too late to open an account and utilize it for savings - for those earning less than six figures; it also helps with taxable income, which helps present-day you as well. Making sure your parents understand the benefits of retirement accounts and the gains made from contributions can make a huge difference in the money they will have come retirement time.
Lifestyle changes might need to be made now to make it easier later.
Some of us know the importance of investing into retirement younger, so it's less of a catch-up once you are older. This means that adjusting current spending habits might need to happen to direct that money to more useful paths like a retirement savings account to offset the amount needing to be saved later. This includes getting rid of exorbitant car payments or money pits that could currently be presenting obstacles to proper retirement savings.
Create living wills.
Estate planning doesn't seem necessary if you don't have assets, but it is important to encourage your parents to create wills for the division of assets after their deaths. This prevents potentially costly arguments with the state over dividing what it is they left behind and can prevent family infighting during those sad times as well.
Insurance policies can go a long way.
Some employers have free life insurance policies, while others can be quite costly. Those life insurance policies can prove to be quite helpful to cover the costs of anything from funeral expenses to cover any outstanding debt you might have. Various types of insurance provide a solution should any financial obligations a person had when they were alive need to be met, so encouraging your parents to invest in policies as early as possible is a viable solution should they not have much saved in retirement accounts.
Some policies, like whole life policies, will accumulate worth and actually provide payments before death. There are many different types of insurance products that can work with your parent’s budget that will help them and you during difficult times.
We know that things get complicated as our parents age, and our own financial situations can change a lot with aging family members. It is important to keep in mind how we can all adjust to make being your parent's retirement account less stressful and more beneficial to all.
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For Latinos, money is a topic that’s often colored by generational trauma, emotional baggage, and cultural expectations. At a subconscious level, those things create patterns around money that hold us back. The good news is that those patterns aren’t difficult to break and healing your relationship with money is very much possible. Here are 8 tips that will help you get started on that:
Take the time to understand your money history
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Your family’s history with money can 100% shape your financial mindset, so it’s essential to understand it. Reflect on your upbringing and the messages your Latino parents provided about money. Understanding the narratives you’ve been taught about money is the first step in healing your relationship with money. Acknowledge the past, but understand that you don’t have to carry your parent’s struggles with money or beliefs about it. You can create a new narrative around money and a new mindset.
Educate yourself about money
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Most people, including Latinos, learn things about money from their families and the people around them. There’s no class in school about personal finances or how to have a healthy relationship with money. You can take your education into your own hands, though. Financial literacy is the best way to get smarter about money and build a better mindset about it. There are plenty of free YouTube videos, books, and podcasts that will help you learn the basics of budgeting, saving, investing, and personal finances. The more you learn, the more confidence you’ll feel about managing your money.
Dream big, start small
Photo by micheile henderson on UnsplashWhen it comes to financial goals, you need to keep things realistic. You can dream as big as you want, but you have to start small. Whether it’s saving for a vacation, paying off debt, getting a car, or investing in your education, breaking down big goals into smaller, manageable steps can make them less overwhelming and more attainable. Nothing you want is out of reach, it’s just a matter of living within your means and making financial plans you can stick to.
Embrace a growth mindset
Photo by Miguel Bruna on UnsplashBelieving that you can change your financial situation is essential. If you don’t believe you can, you won’t; that’s how a fixed mindset works. Instead of sticking with that, we encourage you to develop and embrace a growth mindset that allows you to see challenges as opportunities to learn and grow. Remember, your financial habits are not set in stone. If something’s not working for you, you can change it and develop healthier money habits. Doing that is how you start to heal your relationship with money.
Create a financial plan for yourself
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Creating a financial plan doesn’t have to be complicated and crazy. It’s just creating a budget and sticking to it. To do that, you need to track your income and your expenses to see where your money is going. It’s good to do this for a couple of months so you can identify areas where you can cut back, like shopping, to have more money for your financial goals. Your financial plan needs to align with those goals, so make sure they’re specific. Whether you just want to build an emergency fund, save for one thing or another, or invest, you need your budget to support that and help you achieve it.
Practice mindful spending
Photo by Lesly Juarez on UnsplashOne thing many Latinos do, especially if they’ve always been discouraged from spending because “money doesn’t grow on trees,” is spend more than they have. Instead of being scared of spending, they go the other route and spend without thought. Both extremes are wrong, but when it comes to spending in particular, it’s important to be mindful. It’s very easy to make impulsive purchases because everything’s available online and we’re constantly being asked to buy, buy, buy. You have to keep yourself in check, though. Before you buy anything, pause and ask yourself if it’s taking you closer or farther from your goals. This is how you can above impulse buying and make conscious choices about money.
Ask for help!
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Understanding personal finances and what works for you isn’t always something you can do on your own. Sometimes, you need the guidance and support of someone who already got the hang of it and overcame their generational trauma. That’s where financial advisors and financial coaches can come in handy. They will help you create financial plans, find solutions for any current financial issues, and make informed decisions about investments and more. They can also help you build better financial habits and address the generational trauma holding you back.
Review and adjust regularly
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Your financial plan is not set in stone! As you make progress on your goals, you’ll need to review and adjust it. Tracking your income, expenses, savings, and more isn’t something you do once and be done with it. It needs to become a part of your routine because it’s how you will stay on track. It’s not about obsessing over money, it’s just about having a clear picture of your financial circumstances, your priorities, and what you’re doing about healing your relationship with money. Remember, money is a tool to live your life, not a source of limitations.
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