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“Of Mothers and Men” Opens May 7th: a Powerful Exploration of Afro-Latina Perspectives on Motherhood
While Mother’s Day can be a beautiful holiday that honors mothers and celebrates motherhood, it can also be a painful day for many. Mother-daughter dynamics exist on a wide spectrum and, sometimes, they’re complicated and a source of heartache for many different reasons. A new play, “Of Mothers and Men,” opens May 7th to explore some of those complex dynamics from an Afro-Latina perspective.
The dynamic new play is produced by the Black Latina Movement, an award-winning grassroots theater company and cultural group dedicated to advancing African and Latino cultures through storytelling and visual representation. The company provides a platform for diverse talent to showcase their artistry through a variety of creative projects, promote diversity in local communities, and create inclusive spaces.
The Black Latina Movement was founded by Jamaican-Puerto Rican Crystal Shaniece Roman in 2008. Roman is also the writer and director of the critically acclaimed “Of Mothers and Men.” Derived from the American classic written by John Steinbeck, “Of Mice and Men,” the play offers a unique perspective on women, their mothers, and their relationships with men.
“After creating The Black Latina Movement in 2008, I knew it was time for the world to see us for who we are and not the box they put us in. With all the social and economic issues we are facing in the world, I know that time is here. I want to help broaden the spectrum of hues the industry has and provide the further depth it so desperately needs,” Roman says in her Creator Statement.
“Through the medium of the arts, now more than ever we need to showcase the diversity of women and our multiplicities, especially those for women of color. As a Black Latina, my perspective may be unique but shares so many commonalities with many women of multicultural backgrounds,” Roman concluded.
Promotional image by “Of Mothers and Men” on Instagram
“Of Mothers and Men” is a monologue-driven play where each of the 9 vignettes offers a profound look into the significance of two of the most influential people in one’s life. Each monologue is delivered by a different character and their age and background color their perception, making each of their perspectives unique and nuanced. The play is not only female-created, it’s also female-funded and it boasts an all-female cast of Latina and African American women, including Roman herself.
“The lives of Black and Latino people are more than the pain and trauma that has been woven into the tapestry of our strength. We deserve to have more conversations about the dynamics of our healthy relationships, as well as more expressions of the complexities that exist within the arts,” said Roman in a recent press release. This is the core of “Of Mothers and Men” and it accomplishes those conversations beautifully.
What makes the play resonate with women across the board, but especially Latina, Afro-Latina, and African American women, is that each monologue is honest and raw, unraveling the joy and pain that stems from each character’s relationship with their mothers and the men in their lives.
Because each vignette offers a unique perspective, together they explore a wide spectrum of experiences, providing visibility and much-needed contrast while revealing cultural insights. Audiences may easily find at least one story they can directly relate to, and the ones they can’t relate to still provide eye-opening points of view, prompting them to think more deeply about their own dynamics and peel back the layers.
Promotional image by “Of Mothers and Men” on Instagram
First created in 2010, the play had its first off-Broadway run in 2012 and toured the Northeast. Over a decade later, “Of Mothers and Men” is coming back to the stage in New York City from May 7 to May 11 at the wild project in the East Village and it’s one of the Mother’s Day Week events you shouldn’t miss if you’re in the city.
You can get your tickets here and mark your calendar for a transformative experience.
The number of women who die due to complications during childhood is on the rise in the United States. Over 5.6 million women live in maternity care deserts - areas where access to maternity healthcare is limited or doesn’t exist at all. Other factors that contribute to maternal mortality are lack of proper prenatal care and pre-existing health conditions like diabetes or high blood pressure, among others.
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For Latina mothers, one of the main factors contributing to maternal mortality is a lack of insurance and access to health care. According to a 2019 report from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Latina mothers were less likely to receive prenatal care compared to white mothers.
Moreover, racial disparities and systemic racism are major factors contributing to maternal mortality among women of color. According to a recent study, the actions of healthcare providers and their interactions with patients reveal an implicit bias for white women and discrimination against women of color.
Not only are women of color often dismissed regarding symptoms and concerns during pregnancy, but they’re also mistreated. A survey from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention revealed that 30% of Black women, 29% of Latina women, and 27% of multiracial women experienced mistreatment during pregnancy or birth, compared to 19% of white women.
Within this context, doulas are providing much-needed support to Latina mothers and empowering them through dedicated services.
The Reality of Latina Mothers
In an interview for BBC, Surey Rodriguez-Cortes, a certified doula, shed light on how Latino doulas are changing the field, which “has been composed predominantly of middle-class white women for decades.” Rodriguez-Cortes shared that she has seen a rise in the number of people of color entering doula work every year. Diversity in this field is essential because culture informs the way women approach birth and the decisions they make regarding things like pain management.
For Latina mothers, for example, labor pain is regarded as a motherly obligation, leading them to decline pain medication often. The fact is that traditions and beliefs affect the experience of giving birth, but healthcare providers often don’t consider them because of their biases and stereotypical beliefs about women of color.
There’s proof of consistent stigma and bias in maternity care for Latina women and women of color overall. That manifests through mistreatment like ignoring requests for help, dismissing symptoms of concerns, shouting or scolding, being forced to accept unwanted treatment, and more. For Latina women who don’t speak English, this mistreatment is even more likely.
Giving birth in the U.S., especially for women of color, can be a traumatic experience where mothers feel like they don’t have a voice. Latino doulas seek to change this reality for Latina mothers by providing an empowered birth and postpartum experience. Having a doula makes a big difference, especially if they can incorporate cultural practices, help eliminate language barriers, and provide guidance in navigating the challenges and disparities in the healthcare system.
The Impact of Culturally Competent Doulas
Doulas are trained professionals who provide emotional and physical support before, during, and after birth. The term “doulas” and “midwives” is often used interchangeably, but their roles are different. The main difference is that midwives provide medical care while doulas don’t.
The main role of the doula is to make the birthing experience as comfortable as possible through various methods, such as massages, position suggestions, advocacy, and more. In other words, a doula is a protector and a champion for mothers in the delivery room (or at home if mothers decide to have a home birth) and beyond.
What makes Latine doulas different is that they have the cultural background other doulas lack. This allows them to understand Latine mothers, their challenges, and their beliefs a lot better, so they can provide support with the necessary cultural considerations to get them the kind of birth they deserve.
Moreover, Latine doulas eliminate language barriers for mothers who don’t speak English and advocate for them, helping them navigate the healthcare system more effectively. Latine doulas ensure mothers don’t lose their voice at any step of the way, and they listen to their wishes to effectively communicate them to healthcare providers, acting as advocates for mothers.
Latine mothers who have worked with Latine doulas report a more positive birthing experience where they feel heard, protected, and comfortable. Given that they are greatly affected by maternal mortality, having a doula by their side can reduce many of the risks by ensuring that they’re listened to instead of dismissed and tended to instead of mistreated during one of the most consequential moments of their lives.
Breaking Barriers: Empowering Latina Moms in Breastfeeding
Latina mothers have historically undertaken the task of breastfeeding with unwavering dedication. However, the question looms: Does society truly play a committed role in supporting and accompanying them during this crucial stage?
Far beyond being a mere biological practice, breastfeeding is a profound, and sometimes challenging commitment that significantly influences public health, the well-being of our children, the harmony of family units, and the overall quality of life for families and communities. Therefore, breastfeeding should be viewed and treated as a collective endeavor, a community act that intricately weaves a rich tradition passed down from generation to generation in our community.
While breastfeeding creates many radiant moments for mothers, it’s essential to confront the problems that disrupt the natural practice of feeding our children.
Historically, breastfeeding served as a shared ritual, a thread connecting the social fabric, creating a support network among women to nourish both body and spirit. Yet, in today's world, we face challenges threatening the delicate bonds of community: work pressures, social stigma, and a lack of support. These challenges make the already complex process of caring for an infant even more difficult than it should be.
At the crossroads of the 21st century, the decision to become a mother faces a dichotomy imposed by a society still grappling with reconciling motherhood with female autonomy. This struggle is particularly pronounced for Latina mothers, where cultural traditions and preconceptions about women's roles intersect.
In navigating these tensions, the challenge of changing cultural standards for lactating mothers extends beyond merely challenging external expectations. It necessitates a thoughtful and objective reassessment of the deeply ingrained roles assigned to women in parenting.
Acknowledging and valuing our cultural traditions while fostering more equitable participation in parenthood is essential for a world free of machismo and patriarchal rules placed upon women’s bodies.
We recognize the harsh realities Latina mothers confront – from the demand to resume work shortly after childbirth to enduring disapproving glances while feeding their babies in public, fueled by outdated myths and sexualized perceptions of breasts. Moreover, navigating the profound physical transformation of their bodies, breastfeeding becomes a solitary journey, as society's understanding of this experience continues to fail mothering in the 21st century.
How can we advocate for breastfeeding? What can we do from our own spaces?
Acknowledging the barriers for new mothers who choose to, or can, breastfeed is the first step. There are tangible actions we can take to change the collective perspective on breastfeeding as an act of care that should be sustained and shared by society as a whole. Let's talk about concrete actions:
Advocate for Breastfeeding-Friendly Workspaces:
Companies and workplaces can empower breastfeeding mothers by implementing policies such as equipped lactation rooms and flexible schedules.
Demystify Social Stigma Surrounding Breastfeeding:
Community awareness campaigns to change perceptions and eliminate stigma around breastfeeding and the sexualization of breasts, emphasizing the importance of this natural and healthy act.
Establish Community Support Groups:
Create local support groups where mothers can share experiences, tips, and receive the emotional support needed during breastfeeding.
Facilitate Education on Breastfeeding:
Organize educational workshops in communities and health centers to provide accurate information about the benefits of breastfeeding and address common myths.
Promote Equitable Maternity Leave Policies:
Advocate for more extensive and equitable maternity leave policies that allow mothers to dedicate the necessary time to breastfeeding before returning to work.
Involve the Community:
Organize community events to raise awareness about the importance of supporting breastfeeding mothers, fostering a culture of understanding and collaboration.
Support Local Female Empowerment Initiatives:
Back and participate in projects that promote female empowerment and equality, contributing to the transformation of traditional roles in parenting and breastfeeding.
Become Aware of Your Own Unconscious or Conscious Biases:
How often have you seen a woman breastfeeding in person and stared longer than you should have, or even unconsciously made a face expressing displeasure? Or perhaps you could have been more polite or helpful somehow? Helping someone feel more comfortable is sometimes as easy as expressing kind words or gestures.
Acknowledging the barriers for new mothers who choose to, or can, breastfeed is the first step. There are tangible actions we can take to change the collective perspective on breastfeeding as an act of care that should be sustained and shared by society as a whole. Let's talk about concrete actions:
Advocate for Breastfeeding-Friendly Workspaces:
Companies and workplaces can empower breastfeeding mothers by implementing policies such as equipped lactation rooms and flexible schedules.
Demystify Social Stigma Surrounding Breastfeeding:
Community awareness campaigns to change perceptions and eliminate stigma around breastfeeding and the sexualization of breasts, emphasizing the importance of this natural and healthy act.
Establish Community Support Groups:
Create local support groups where mothers can share experiences, tips, and receive the emotional support needed during breastfeeding.
Facilitate Education on Breastfeeding:
Organize educational workshops in communities and health centers to provide accurate information about the benefits of breastfeeding and address common myths.
Promote Equitable Maternity Leave Policies:
Advocate for more extensive and equitable maternity leave policies that allow mothers to dedicate the necessary time to breastfeeding before returning to work.
Involve the Community:
Organize community events to raise awareness about the importance of supporting breastfeeding mothers, fostering a culture of understanding and collaboration.
Support Local Female Empowerment Initiatives:
Back and participate in projects that promote female empowerment and equality, contributing to the transformation of traditional roles in parenting and breastfeeding.
Become Aware of Your Own Unconscious or Conscious Biases:
How often have you seen a woman breastfeeding in person and stared longer than you should have, or even unconsciously made a face expressing displeasure? Or perhaps you could have been more polite or helpful somehow? Helping someone feel more comfortable is sometimes as easy as expressing kind words or gestures.
Breastfeeding, when held in its rightful esteem, can help the well-being of our community flourish. We must raise a collective consciousness to strengthen the support network surrounding breastfeeding. — a practice that not only nourishes infants but also the very foundation of our societal well-being.